Living with my mom was emotionally turbulent. Discovering my struggles with CPTSD, I confronted my brother's manipulation as her cancer progressed. His control left me fearing for my safety.
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I want to clarify that I'm not seeking pity; I'm a hard worker, an empath, and someone who values love and connection deeply. Unfortunately, I've been stripped of these emotional, spiritual, and mental aspects of my life. The passing of my mother has been a profound emotional challenge for me. Despite her harsh treatment, which often cast me as the scapegoat while favoring my younger brother, I recognize the impact she had on my struggles with CPTSD. Her own history of abuse, inherited from her mother, has left a legacy of pain that extends to my aunts as well. This isn't about seeking sympathy; it's about acknowledging a truth that shapes my journey. Malevolence what controls my family some of the family memes enjoy it and some become victim as a co dependent .
Living with my mom from 2014 to 2021 was an emotional rollercoaster, shadowed by her harmful behavior. Delving into the pain of her emotional abuse, I found solace in online resources, revealing my struggles with Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD) and uncovering similar battles within my family. My mother was diagnosed with stage 4 uterine and colon cancer in January 2021. Before her diagnosis, she was rapidly losing weight and not eating. I believe my brother and his wife suspected her health issues, given her symptoms and his wife's nursing background.
During her illness, my brother manipulated every situation, including her diet, despite my efforts to care for her. He even became violent towards me, displaying signs of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Despite my best efforts, I had to move out due to escalating violence and manipulation.
A year later, my brother admitted our mother to hospice care without informing me. Despite the fact, that she was screaming for her life that she did not want to die, and for the lord to help her and why she was going through this. She passed away under the concept of "death with dignity," orchestrated by my brother, who sought control over her assets. Before her death, she reached out to me, expressing fear and distress, but my brother intercepted communications to maintain control. He got his wish to see his mother's death …
Eventually, I had to leave for my safety, guided by professional advice and a need for distance. Despite my brother's attempts to isolate me, I remained connected to my mom, unaware of his plans to admit her to hospice care without my knowledge. Her passing, orchestrated under dubious circumstances, left me grappling with his manipulation and greed.
In the aftermath, I've come to understand the depth of my brother's toxicity. His relentless pursuit of control and his disregard for others' well-being paint a chilling picture. His actions since our mom's death only confirm his dangerous nature, leaving me fearful for my safety and determined to protect myself from his schemes.
Here are reference videos and pictures for proof : My Brother is forcing my mother to get changed:https://drive.google.com/file/d/1W0AZt_-sOiKLPiKueK5YFDKaE0_ZHOs6/view?usp=sharing The funeral home form to prepare for my mother's memorial https://drive.google.com/file/d/1VR3NYtOPtdedbxuUtBnHlvzPX-A_ZYlm/view?usp=sharing Video of the text history before my mother was killed by my brother he never mentioned that she was going to be admitted to the outpatient hospice. https://go.screenpal.com/watch/cZhVD8VMAu8
Had a birthday party on 8-21-22 before her birth date of 8-25-22 only a link was sent to me via FB messenger by my cousin did not mention of her being admitted to the outpatient hospice. https://drive.google.com/file/d/13aywY_gK-HFd0p111qMdlfWN7KJ6rNKK/view?usp=sharing https://drive.google.com/file/d/1-nZzTFMkh778erLGXk_c4AQz6on8B1iv/view?usp=sharing Another cousin sent an email twice with no mention of her being admitted to the hospice: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1t_3uGCJ0TUEM36IRNe3Fuej4FMqLmByk/view?usp=sharing https://drive.google.com/file/d/1tUUUdC3_5lw-PsSw3KIPD1E2e1x2n8dC/view?usp=sharing
1-23-21 Proof of my brother's violence was kicked in my bed room door because he wanted to get reference papers which he thought it was medical records . https://drive.google.com/file/d/1IFQZ2vSd4uIJTDkkfocGNI6CPm2iPz29/view?usp=sharing https://drive.google.com/file/d/1uWs5zMWb8v2hYFPWLieDl1GeYLtkjcfZ/view?usp=sharing
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